I am a gay man not a woman! Please do not misgender me and respect my choice of style!
Don’t be surprised if people misgender you.
Oh, I know! People are totally justified to mistake me for a lady! But if I tell someone I’m I boy and they still intentionally refer to me as a lady just because of a dress, then that’s very frustrating and just a little disrespectful. They’re not women’s clothes, they’re not men’s clothes, they’re my clothes.
Donnie you look fly as fuck you classy man
this is literally the stupidest fucking post i’ve seen on tumblr.
I am so done. So fucking done. “Don’t misgender me even though I make no effort to pass as the gender I feel I am. I expect everyone to guess that I am completely opposite of what I look like and will be offended if they don’t know”. I’m all for clothes being clothes instead of segregated. But this shit pissed me off for real.
he said he’s angry when he tells people he’s a boy and they still refer to him as a girl just because he’s wearing a dress, and that automatically makes him female in their mind. he’s perfectly right to be upset about that. misgendering happens, especially when clothes are still stupidly considered girls/boys, but intentionally disrespecting someone’s identity isn’t okay regardless of the circumstances.